Should I listen to my mind or my heart?

if you feel it is true love than be patient. I mean that isnt an easy situation for you or for him, but you dont want to make him rush either, it seems like he is trying to do things the right way before making a commitment to you. It may be hard but so are all relationships. There are ups and downs but if you guys can get through these hard times you will be much stronger in the end and the bond that will be created will be unbreakable