Was this the wrong thing to do?

we( my daughter and myself ) were trying to get my grandaughter to behave because it got really bad and my daughter didn't know what else to say so i shouted your adopted ( shes not ) just so we could get rid of her for a while, so shes away to alabama to find her parents with her boyfriend - so she will be safe and he has heaps of money - but maybe by the time she comes home she will be nice? or we will have moved so we dont have to put up with her! it sounds bad but if you were here you would know, we got her a counciler and she just didnt respond infact she offered the counciler alcohol so yer desperation does funny things to you!